Every year, millions of Nigerians and people worldwide celebrate their mothers on a special day dedicated to maternal love and appreciation.
However, many do not realize that two distinct celebrations exist—Mothering Sunday and Mother’s Day. Despite their similar names and purpose, these two occasions have different historical backgrounds, origins, and dates of observance.
Understanding these differences can help people celebrate their mothers with a deeper appreciation for the traditions behind each day.
The Origin of Mothering Sunday
Mothering Sunday has deep historical roots in Christianity and dates back to the 16th century in the United Kingdom. Originally, it was not about celebrating mothers in the way we do today but was instead a religious tradition.
The term “Mothering Sunday” referred to the custom of people returning to their “mother church”—the main church or cathedral in their area—on the fourth Sunday of Lent. This was a day for families to reunite and worship together.
During this time, many young people worked as domestic servants in large houses, often living far from home. Mothering Sunday became one of the few times they were allowed to return to their families and spend the day with their mothers. Over time, the focus of the day gradually shifted from a purely religious observance to a celebration of mothers themselves, incorporating traditions such as giving flowers and preparing special meals.
The Origin of Mother’s Day
Mother’s Day, as it is known today, originated in the United States in the early 20th century. Unlike Mothering Sunday, it was not based on religious traditions but was established as a way to honor the sacrifices and contributions of mothers to society.
The modern Mother’s Day was created by Anna Jarvis in 1908. Jarvis, an American social activist, campaigned for a national day to recognize mothers after the death of her own mother. Her efforts led to the official recognition of Mother’s Day as a national holiday in the United States in 1914, when President Woodrow Wilson designated the second Sunday in May for the celebration.
This version of Mother’s Day quickly gained popularity and spread to other countries, including Nigeria. Today, many people across the world, including Nigerians, celebrate Mother’s Day in May, following the American tradition.
Key Differences Between Mothering Sunday and Mother’s Day
Although both Mothering Sunday and Mother’s Day celebrate motherhood, they differ in several key aspects:
- Historical Origin: Mothering Sunday originated as a religious tradition in the UK, while Mother’s Day in the U.S. was founded as a secular celebration to honor mothers.
- Date of Celebration: Mothering Sunday is observed on the fourth Sunday of Lent, which falls in March or early April. In contrast, Mother’s Day is celebrated on the second Sunday of May.
- Geographical Popularity: Mothering Sunday is mainly observed in the UK and some Commonwealth countries, while Mother’s Day, following the American tradition, is widely celebrated in Nigeria, the U.S., and other nations.
- Traditional Practices: In the UK, Mothering Sunday historically involved attending church, reuniting with family, and giving flowers. Modern Mother’s Day often involves giving gifts, cards, and spending time with mothers.
Why Nigerians Confuse the Two Celebrations
Many Nigerians follow global trends and adopt holidays that gain international recognition. Because Mother’s Day in May is widely promoted through media, marketing campaigns, and church announcements, most Nigerians assume it is the only day set aside to celebrate mothers.
Additionally, some Nigerian churches observe Mothering Sunday as part of their church calendar, while others follow the American Mother’s Day schedule.
This inconsistency further contributes to the confusion, leading some people to celebrate both days without realizing their historical and cultural differences.
How Nigerians Celebrate Both Occasions
In Nigeria, whether celebrating Mothering Sunday or Mother’s Day, the emphasis remains on showing appreciation for mothers and maternal figures. Many people attend church services where special prayers are offered for mothers, while others organize family gatherings, prepare special meals, and present gifts such as clothing, food items, and money.
Churches often play a significant role in the celebration, with some holding thanksgiving services in honor of mothers. Many organizations and businesses also seize the opportunity to promote gifts, greeting cards, and special offers, making the day even more festive.
Should Nigerians Choose One Over the Other?
There is no strict rule on which day Nigerians should celebrate. Some people prefer to stick to one day, while others choose to honor their mothers on both occasions.
The most important aspect is the intention behind the celebration—expressing gratitude, love, and respect for mothers and the role they play in society.
For those who wish to follow a specific tradition, it may be helpful to ask whether their family or church follows the British Mothering Sunday or the American Mother’s Day.
However, what truly matters is the effort put into making mothers feel special and appreciated.
Although Mothering Sunday and Mother’s Day are often used interchangeably, they have different origins and dates of observance.
While Mothering Sunday stems from a Christian tradition in the UK, Mother’s Day was established in the U.S. as a way to recognize the contributions of mothers.
In Nigeria, both celebrations are observed, leading to some confusion. Regardless of which day is chosen, the key message remains the same—mothers deserve to be honored, appreciated, and celebrated for their love, sacrifices, and dedication.
